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Are you dating a man you have doubts about? Or have you found a man, but are you questioning his intentions? It could be that you are dealing with a womanizer . Because some men can’t keep their hands off other women and this can cause some problems. That’s why we’re going to tell you what a womanizer is, what exactly he does and 5 signs that you can see if you are dealing with such a bad guy.
What is a womanizer?
A womanizer is someone who can’t keep his hands off women. This manifests itself in regular flirting with other women or even worse – relationships with multiple women at the same time . As a single man, you don’t hurt anyone by flirting with every woman, but in a relationship? Then it is a problem.
If you are in a relationship with a womanizer, you are never completely sure of yourself. For example, a womanizer can tell his partner that he is monogamous, but in the meantime… he lies about everything. He just wants as many women around him as possible, whether it is for the attention, his ego or for sex.
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Lying and deceiving
A womanizer is someone you as a woman would rather not have a relationship with. The behavior of this type of man makes women insecure – about the relationship, about themselves. What characterizes the womanizer is that he is insensitive to the feelings of women. He lacks the bit of compassion that makes him interesting on the one hand, but a dangerous type on the other. It makes him lie and cheat, and shows no compassion for the feelings of women. Pretty sad actually, isn’t it?
5 Signs He’s a Womanizer
We women usually have a good sense when something is not right. Still, it is useful to know how to recognize a womanizer, because sometimes our sense does not work through the rose-colored glasses we are wearing. We are then so in love that we do not see it or do not want to see it.
Fortunately, there are five signs that you can recognize that the man is a womanizer. Do you recognize at least one of these signs? Then it is time to pay attention and take off those rose-colored glasses quickly.
1. He is overly flirtatious
Do you notice that the man you are dating is always looking at other women, flirting intensely and getting very close to other women? Then it could be that you have entered into a relationship with an unreliable specimen of man. A womanizer likes the first feeling of connection and the pursuit of feminine beauty.
Of course, if he flirts a little, that doesn’t have to be a warning sign. Sometimes men don’t notice when they look at other women, but you can pay attention if it happens often. And especially if everyone notices it.
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2. Other women have bad experiences
If other people don’t tell good stories about this womanizer, you better watch out. Of course, everyone has a past and it doesn’t necessarily mean that someone is “bad” by definition. If it is the case that other women tell bad experiences, you better stay away. Womanizers have a reputation like Casanova and Don Juan . And those were also men you better stay away from.
Chances are he will treat you just like he treats everyone else. As he has done to everyone else, he will do to you – with some exceptions. And you do n’t want a broken heart , do you? So always be alert to the signals and take these experiences into account in your decision.
3. He uses his status to impress
A womanizer is usually a man who likes to show off what he has. For example, is he very rich, does he have a good job or another fact with which he wants to impress? Then pay close attention. Most types use their status to get a woman into bed. Or to attract attention in the first place. Once that is successful, they quickly move on to the next one to play the game again . Therefore, always pay attention to how the relationship or dating started with this notorious womanizer.
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4. A laundry list of deceptions
We women have a habit of bringing up stories or experiences from 5 years ago in no time. Do you hear from others – or from him – that his relationships were broken off because he was unfaithful? Then it is advisable to be extra alert. It is possible that people regret it and never do it again, but a womanizer is known for displaying recurring behavior.
Is he honest about it and shows remorse? Then you could give it a chance, but don’t blindly trust in a hopeful outcome.
5. You’ve never met his friends and/or family
The nice thing about dating for a few months is that you can meet his friends and family. Can’t you? Then it’s a strong signal that he may not take you seriously. A womanizer usually doesn’t feel like it, because he’s obviously playing a game and doesn’t want a permanent relationship.
If he still doesn’t want to introduce his family and friends after a few months , you’d better run away. It could be that he only wants the pleasures of a relationship and not the burdens. Therefore, always ask in time if you can meet his friends and/or family. And then you can gauge his reaction; it says a lot about his intentions.
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Start the conversation
Do you recognize multiple signs that could indicate that he is a womanizer? Of course, you can hope that he will change , but let’s be honest: how many people have you seen completely change? Most of the time, it is hoping for a change that will never happen.
Therefore, by all means, have a conversation with him and be open about what you notice. Does he respond with understanding and does he show that he wants to change? Then you can possibly give him a second chance. But if he gives an evasive answer or if he brushes aside your concerns, you can be sure that this womanizer has no intention of changing.
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