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We’ve all met someone who is kind, loving, affectionate, helpful, and personable. In other words: everything a woman looks for in a man. But that is also where the problem lies. Not all men are who they say they are. That is why women are often on high alert to be extra cautious, because caution is always required. And that in itself is not a very crazy thought, because sometimes the perfect gentleman seems just a little too good to be true.
The real smoothies have made it an art to deceive women and make their hearts run wild… and then leave shortly afterwards. While women already dream about tying the knot and having a family, their relationship is just too good to be true. Enough reason to think about the signs to look out for and how to spot these sneaky ones.
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Relationship too good to be true?
It is often difficult to know if a man pretends to be something other than he really is. You just can’t always tell what someone’s true nature is. Sometimes just by looking at his behavior and words you can get an idea of who he really is. For example, if you notice that he is lying about something or trying to hide something, this is often a sign that something more is going on. Also, if you notice that he often shows different personalities, this could be an indication that he is pretending to be different from what he really is.
Now, it doesn’t always mean that a seemingly perfect man only has physical intentions for you, because sometimes it can also be due to a lack of chemistry. You both might be perfect, but not a match. In the examples below we will take you through a few characteristics that can help you recognize whether a relationship is indeed too good to be true.
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1. He is perfect
He is perfect, perfect, ultimate. And that might be just a little too good to be true. During the first few months of your relationship, it is important to observe this man. Does he know exactly when to call you, say the right things to you, and look really smooth for someone who’s been sitting at home all day? At this point, make sure you sit down for a moment and evaluate your interactions, because he may not be completely honest with you.
A man who consistently avoids deep conversations , criticizes, or complains probably does so because he doesn’t care too much about what you have. And if you don’t worry, you are indeed very relaxed, perhaps a little too relaxed. In such a scenario, he’s probably not looking for anything deep between you and him.
2. He is secretly on the phone
If your guy always protects his phone when he’s near you, he might be hiding something from you. This type of man will make an excuse every time he has to answer a call and you are around. A man who has nothing to hide won’t mind answering his calls around you. Beware of this kind of sneaky behavior, because the behavior around a phone can mean a lot.
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3. He won’t let you meet his family or friends
A man who keeps making excuses for why you can’t meet his family may be hiding something. A man who is proud of you will want to introduce you to everyone. This may not be the case in the first few weeks, but there will come a time in the foreseeable future when he will be more than happy to introduce you to the people he loves. If that is not the case, it may be that he does not want anything from you. At least, nothing in terms of relationships and certainly not in the long term.
4. He is incredibly (too) sweet
If this man always compliments you , is sweet and kind, then he is trying to win you over and for a specific purpose. This is often sexual in nature, but there can also be other goals. In fact, he’s so sweet that he’s more like a slippery slimeball than a genuinely friendly personality. Everything that stands for too is not healthy and that is of course also the case with a man who is too sweet. Hopefully you can see through that, we hope.
5. He’s way too charismatic
Most women like a man with the necessary charm and a good dose of character, but beware of half-George Clooney’s who seem to have come straight from a movie set. They are daring, handsome, apparently rich, sweet, endearing and know how to win people over – whether they are women, colleagues, or business partners. Don’t let this half-movie star fool you, because he is a master at promising women the world and disappearing as soon as he has had them in bed enough times.
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6. He talks down his exes
Yes, a relationship can end badly, but that doesn’t mean an ex-partner should be labeled as ‘bad’ or ‘crazy’. If your intended partner always puts down his exes, then that’s pretty questionable behavior. In principle, you just shouldn’t talk about your exes too often, because that always leads to feelings of resentment or jealousy.
As it turns out, a relationship with a man who only has negative stories about all his exes may not be so ideal after all. Because even though he will say it isn’t true, it might all be his fault.
7. He agrees with everything you say
Many women like this at first, but it quickly becomes a bit annoying. It’s nice to have someone in your life who agrees with almost everything you say. However, everyone needs a little constructive criticism every now and then .
You want a partner who can tell you whether you are wrong or right, not a yes-man who agrees with all your opinions and stories. He probably isn’t, but because he doesn’t have serious intentions for you, he tries to keep things as superficial as possible.
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8. He doesn’t call, he only texts
We all text and for most people it is also the first means of contact because it is simply the simplest and most practical. However, it should not only be done via the app, because people who get to know each other better also like to see and talk to each other. That means at least an audio message, but also regularly a phone call or a video call — simply because he misses you and wants to see you. Someone who only texts only wants to see you when you’re between the sheets.
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