Share This Article
We all have those confusing moments where we wonder if someone likes us, right? Whether it’s that cute coworker at work, a friend you secretly have a crush on, or someone you just met, it’s always a challenge to decipher the signals.
What does it mean when someone stares at you all the time? Can you tell from body language that someone finds you attractive? And does flirting also mean that you are attractive to that person? Questions, questions and more questions. Don’t you just want to know how to decipher whether she finds you attractive? We’ll tell you more.
35 Signs She Finds You Attractive
If you’re wondering if that special someone has feelings for you beyond friendship, look for these signs of attraction. These are 35 subtle and not-so-subtle signs that she might want more than you think. So keep your eyes peeled and pay attention to these signs.
1. She’s secretly staring at you
You may have noticed, those moments when you turn around and see her quickly look away? Well, that’s a good sign. Sneaky glances often mean that she is curious about you and that she doesn’t dare to express her feelings (fully) yet.
2. She pays attention to your body language
Pay attention to how she responds to your body language. If she notices that you are relaxed and open, she will probably feel more comfortable being herself. If she mimics you or laughs at your jokes, it is a sign that she is attracted to you.
ALSO READ: 35 Playful Dates to Keep Your Relationship Alive
3. She holds your gaze when you make eye contact
If she not only catches your gaze but holds it, then she definitely wants to get your attention. It’s like she’s trying to hypnotize you with her eyes to make a special connection.
4. She pays extra attention to how she looks
She checks her hair, makeup, and clothes every time you meet. This means she wants to make a good impression on you, and she doesn’t do that for just anyone.
5. She wants (and tries) to be close to you
Whether it’s group activities or just a casual coffee shop, she’ll always find a way to be close to you. She might even try to sit near you or subtly seek your touch .
6. She plays with her hair
Ah, the classic hair flip. When she is nervous or excited, she will unconsciously play with her hair. It is a natural reflex to get your attention. And by doing so, she shows that she is interested.
7. She bites her lip
When she plays with her lips, it can indicate an inner conflict of feelings. She is nervous, but also excited in your presence. It is a sign that she is having trouble controlling her emotions.
ALSO READ: One-Sided Relationship? 22 Signs It’s Coming from One Side
8. She’s nervous around you
If you notice her getting a little clumsy, maybe checking her phone more often or stuttering when she’s around you, it’s probably because she’s so aware of your presence. She doesn’t want to say or do anything wrong.
9. She often touches you ‘accidentally’
Oops, there was that subtle touch again. If she often ‘accidentally’ touches your hand, arm or back, chances are it’s not an accident at all. She’s looking for excuses to be physically closer to you.
10. Her voice gets higher
When she talks to you, do you notice that her voice sounds a little higher than normal? That is not a coincidence. A higher voice shows that she is excited and that is a sign that she likes you.
11. She only wants to be with you
When she suggests spending time together, without others around, it’s a clear sign that she values your company and wants to build a special bond with you .
12. She gets excited when she sees you
If her eyes light up and a smile appears on her face when she sees you, then chances are she likes you more than anything. You are the one who makes her heart beat faster.
13. She offers to help you or gives you gifts
Whether it’s helping with a project at work or bringing you painkillers when you’re sick, if she’s willing to lend a hand or surprise you with small gifts, it shows she cares.
ALSO READ: Is He The One? Not If He Does These 25 Things
14. She asks you personal questions
If she is curious about your life, interests and dreams, then she really wants to get to know you on a deeper level. She is interested in what makes you unique.
15. She thinks you’re funny
Whether you’re a master at telling jokes or you’re just being yourself and not really telling any jokes at all, if she always laughs at your jokes and humor, then she appreciates your company.
16. She compliments you often
From your looks to your achievements, if she compliments you often, it is a sign that she admires you and finds you attractive. She wants you to feel good about yourself and at the same time she wants to give you the hint that she likes you .
17. She wants to know everything about the things you’re passionate about
If she shows genuine interest in your passions, hobbies and interests, it is because she really wants to get to know you and have a deeper connection with you. She wants to be a part of your world.
18. She is the one who often starts the conversation
If she often takes the initiative to talk to you, text you or call you, it means that she wants to be in contact with you. She invests time and effort in your interaction.
19. She replies to your messages immediately
Whenever you message her, it seems like she always responds within seconds. That’s a sign that she’s happy to hear from you and isn’t stringing you along.
20. She hints that she is available
She may casually mention her relationship status or flirt with the idea of dating. If she makes you feel like she’s open to romance, that’s her way of checking in on you.
ALSO READ: Couples Have More in Common Than We Think’
21. She flirts with you
Flirting can be subtle. But if she teases you, makes eye contact with a mischievous smile, or compliments you with a wink, she is definitely flirting. She wants to show that she is interested in more than just friendship .
22. She is jealous of other women around you.
If she seems a little jealous when you hang out with other women, it could be a sign that she’s secretly hoping you only have eyes for her.
23. She talks or jokes about sex
If she openly talks about sex or makes jokes with a double entendre , it’s her way of testing how open you are to the idea of a relationship.
24. Her eyes are round and her pupils are dilated
The eyes are the windows to the soul, they say. If her pupils dilate when she is with you, it is an unconscious sign of excitement and attraction.
25. She tries to extend the conversation
Do your conversations seem to go on forever because she doesn’t want it to end? Then that’s an indication that she enjoys being in your company.
26. She lets you know she likes you
Sometimes women are direct and just let you know how they feel. If she tells you she likes you or that she enjoys your time together, take it as a genuine expression of her feelings.
27. She stares at your lips
Watch out for that mesmerizing look on her face when she looks at your lips while you talk. She may be secretly fantasizing about that first kiss.
28. She sends you sexy things
If she sends you flirty photos or messages every now and then, she is clearly hinting at a romantic interest. She wants to let you know that she finds you attractive.
ALSO READ: 114 Best Date Ideas for First, Second and More Dates
29. She sometimes dresses provocatively
Have you noticed her in that daring outfit where she looked like a true goddess? If she makes an effort to look extra good when she knows she’s going to see you, chances are she wants to impress you.
30. She invites you to her home
An invitation to come over to her place. That means she feels comfortable in your company and wants you to come closer to her personal space. She wouldn’t do that if she didn’t find you attractive, unless she sees you as a friend of course.
31. She makes time for you
No matter how busy her life is, if she always makes time to meet up with you and talk, then you are clearly a priority to her. It may suggest that she likes you quite a bit.
32. She imitates your gestures and speech
When people are attracted to each other, they can unconsciously mirror each other’s behavior. So if you notice her mimicking your gestures and language, that’s a sign that she wants to connect with you.
33. She remembers the little details
Whether it’s your favorite color, your favorite food, or an important event in your life, she remembers every little detail you’ve told her. This shows that she’s really interested in who you are and what you value.
34. She hints at a date
She might drop hints along the way that she wants to go see a new movie, or that she’s never been to that restaurant. When she drops these hints, it’s her way of inviting you without being too forward.
35. She asks you out on a date
And then comes the moment when she musters up the courage to just ask. If she asks you out on a date , don’t be surprised because the signals were there all along.
These were 35 signs that she may be attracted to you. Of course, every woman is different and some signals may be more subtle than others. So if you notice a combination of these signs, there is a good chance that she is into you .
P.S. Are you already following Gistinger.com on Facebook , Instagram and Twitter?