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Lately your partner has stopped talking about what’s on his mind as usual? Do you no longer receive a nice text from him every day? And also in terms of intimacy it is becoming less and less? If it seems like he’s withdrawing, he often is.
You notice that your relationship is no longer what it was before. He acts differently and his behavior is no longer the same? You may even feel like he is pushing you away and becoming indifferent to everything related to the relationship. These are a number of signs that you can tell that he no longer loves you.
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13 Signs He Doesn’t Love You Anymore
It is painful to realize that your partner no longer loves you. But whether it is or not: it is important to know where you stand in the relationship. After all, you no longer want to be with someone who no longer feels love for you. If you recognize many of these signs, it is high time to have a conversation with your partner. These are 13 signs that he doesn’t love you anymore.
1. He gives you little to no attention
A clear sign that he doesn’t love you anymore is that he no longer wants to be involved in your life. When you want to talk to him, he says he’s busy. If he does take the time to talk to you, he isn’t even giving you his full attention. He avoids eye contact and is on his phone at the same time. He no longer asks how your day was or how you are feeling, which means he is no longer interested in you at all.
2. He makes excuses to avoid you
Normally he wanted nothing more than to be with you, but nowadays he even gets irritated by the way you chew. Whenever you suggest going out together , he always comes up with several bad excuses. It’s healthy to spend plenty of time alone or with others, but your partner will still want to spend time with you.
If he starts making excuses to get out of agreements, this is not a good sign at all. Even if you live together in the same house, you somehow don’t run into him? Unfortunately, this is not a coincidence, but a clear sign that the relationship is almost over .
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3. Lack of communication
This is perhaps one of the most painful signs that he doesn’t love you anymore. Good communication is essential in any relationship. When there is a lack of communication or when it is simply avoided, there is a good chance that the relationship will break down at some point . You can notice this in both verbal and non-verbal communication. If this continues for an extended period of time, it may be time to end the relationship.
4. He forgets all the special dates
When you love someone, you don’t forget the special events. Think about the dates of your birthday, an anniversary or Valentine’s Day: every opportunity to celebrate the relationship . If he has forgotten your birthday and has already arranged something with his friends, then you can conclude that he no longer cares about you.
5. He is secretive
Has your partner been acting secretive lately? For example, does he leave the room when he’s about to call or does he turn his phone away so you can’t read his messages? A man who loves you wouldn’t want to hide anything from you. Once this is no longer the case, he may feel like he no longer feels the need or obligation to let you know everything.
6. He doesn’t tell you anything anymore
Before, you knew everything about what was going on in his head. Nowadays he doesn’t tell you anything anymore. He doesn’t tell anything about his work, hobbies, sports or friends. In short, you no longer have any idea what’s on his mind. By sharing things with your partner you create a bond. When we stop sharing, this connection diminishes. It is a clear sign that the relationship is not going well.
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7. He gets angry for no apparent reason
Your partner has always been a patient guy and very easy to get along with. But lately you notice that he suddenly gets angry out of nowhere? He yells at you about every little thing you do. In addition, he also looks for every opportunity to disagree with you, so that every situation ends in a discussion or argument.
He probably knows full well that he is behaving unreasonably, but he will no longer apologize for his actions. This is a clear sign that he doesn’t want to save the relationship . He’s probably trying to get out of the relationship and he’s giving you every reason to do the same.
8. He asks for a break
Every person needs his or her own space from time to time, some me-time to think. It is therefore very healthy in a relationship to occasionally spend time apart. But if he asks for a break more often than usual, then something is clearly wrong. Ultimately, it is important that your partner wants to spend as much time with you as possible. Even when there are problems, it is important that he does not try to escape by taking a break .
A healthy way to deal with stress or uncertainty is to talk to yourself. When he stops doing this, it is a sign that he is done with the relationship.
9. He stops with the loving words
You may believe that actions speak louder than words, but what if he never says he loves you or misses you again? Then this is an important signal. He never says on his own anymore that he loves you, that you are beautiful or that he misses you. When this continues for an extended period of time, it is a big sign that he doesn’t love you anymore.
In a relationship you need affirmation, no matter how many years you have been together. If the other person can no longer bring himself to say loving words , then this is certainly not a good sign.
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10. He doesn’t want to be seen in public with you anymore
If your man doesn’t want you to be seen with him in public, then this is a sign that he doesn’t love you anymore. He only wants to keep what’s left of your relationship private. Don’t you want your partner to be proud to be seen in public with you as a friend? And you want him to proudly introduce you to his friends and family?
Does he no longer show affection in public? No kiss, no hug, he doesn’t even hold your hand anymore? If this is the case, then your relationship is over.
11. He doesn’t care about your feelings
No matter what a man is going through, he should still care about his partner’s feelings. He may not be as loving as usual, but he would normally still want to know what’s going on with you. He would comfort you and try to make you feel better. But unfortunately this is not the case when a man no longer loves his partner. He has little or no interest in what you feel anymore.
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12. He starts comparing you to other women
He uses every little mistake you make to compare you to other women, especially… his ex? No man who truly loves his partner would compare them to anyone else. This tells you that he is already thinking about other women in his mind. Which means: he’s already moved on and is probably going to break up with him.
13. He is rude
Your partner starts using rude words towards you more and more often and he often answers in a sarcastic way? Does he no longer filter his words? And does he say what he wants? He clearly doesn’t care if he hurts your feelings. It is clear to him that he wants to end the relationship . But because he doesn’t know how to express it in words, these rude words blurt out more and more often.
Share your insecurities, question your partner and find out if he indeed no longer loves you. Is this the case? Then it’s time to end the relationship. You deserve someone who loves you back and cares for you 100%. Don’t settle for less.
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