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As our country enters an intelligent lockdown to combat the coronavirus pandemic, many aspects of our daily lives, including dating, have a new normal. As a result of the virus outbreak, we are talking about the ‘new normal’. But no one really knows what that will look like. Everyone is waiting for the moment when life ‘goes back to normal’, but how long will that last?
The big problem with the measures is that no one knows how long they will last. And with many of us now living in restricted circumstances, the impact on our love lives is huge. Who knows what the long-term consequences will be for our relationships. It could well mean that singles cannot start relationships for two years, because only then will it be responsible and safe. Who knows .
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With the ‘stay at home’ measures that everyone is trying to adhere to as much as possible, singles are faced with devilish dilemmas. Do you prefer a solo quarantine or do you voluntarily take the risk by dating a new match? And how on earth do you do that, when the advice is to stay home as much as possible?
In these extraordinary times, everything that has to do with love is uncertain. Except that we probably all need it now more than ever. So it is not at all strange that you want to date in corona times. And if you do, then preferably as safely as possible so that it is still somewhat responsible.
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8 safety tips for corona-proof dating
The corona outbreak, the risk of infection and the radical measures cause quite a bit of stress. With the advice to stay home as much as possible and news reports that sow panic, you are inclined to embrace the hermit’s existence. But this (temporary) agoraphobia only makes the fear greater. Moreover, this is the perfect way to feel even lonelier and sadder. And that is what nobody wants: to suffer mental complaints from the corona virus. 1
In order to stay physically and mentally healthy, it is therefore important that you stay in touch with other people. It is even one of the fundamental needs of man: social contact. In times of the coronavirus, it is even more important than before to combat the loneliness virus. And that is possible, while adhering to the rules. These are the safety tips if you want to date corona-proof.
1. Use the technology
We live in strange and unprecedented times with one advantage: technology brings us closer together. Technology provides the tools to help you stay connected, even with people you don’t know yet. So make sure you have these tools at your disposal: Facebook Messenger, Instagram DMs, Facetime, Whatsapp and of course, dating apps. After all, there is no better place for corona-proof dating than at these virtual meeting places.
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2. Only date if you have no complaints
It seems like common sense: only date if you don’t have COVID-19 symptoms. But this is also the most important safety tip. To protect yourself and your date, it is more than wise to postpone the date if you have group symptoms. In fact, if you have symptoms such as fever, shortness of breath and respiratory complaints, go into home quarantine and date virtually .
“It’s just the flu..”
3. Don’t date anyone who doesn’t understand the seriousness of the virus
Everyone knows someone who doesn’t take ‘that exaggerated corona stuff’ seriously. If you come into contact with such a person, don’t hesitate to turn down a date with such a person. These are the people who are causing the virus to spread faster. And also ask yourself the question: do you really want to date someone who is a potential risk to your health?
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4. Don’t meet in crowded places
Although you should only go outside if necessary, it is certainly not smart to meet in crowded places. The new coronavirus can spread especially well in places where many people are present at the same time. Be smart and avoid these places for a safe date. Where you better not meet:
- In the center to go shopping
- At a busy beach
- At a swimming pond
5. Avoid the physical greeting
Shaking hands is not allowed, a hug is forbidden and a kiss on the cheek is out of the question: greeting each other is only possible if the distance is kept. Especially if you have a date more often, it is necessary to keep this distance when greeting. It is the only safe way to be able to date, where you adhere to the measures. And that also means that you can’t kiss after the first date , no matter how much you would like to.
6. Keep your distance from each other
We all have to keep a distance of 1.5 meters. This applies to the supermarket, public transport and wherever you are. A date is no exception. Whatever you do and whoever you meet, keep an eye on the social distance. So choose a date idea where this distance is possible. And for example, do not go cycling on a tandem or sailing in a small rubber boat.
- Take a walk in the woods
- Meet each other in a park
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7. Follow the general advice
If everyone does their bit, together we can prevent some of us from not getting the care they deserve. You don’t have to be a healthcare worker to care for others. You can do this by following the advice of the RIVM, also on a date. The measures you can take to prevent the spread of the coronavirus:
- Wash your hands regularly with soap and water
- Cough and sneeze into the inside of your elbow
- Use paper tissues
- Do not shake hands
- Stay home if you have cold symptoms
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8. Don’t just go on a date
No one is saying that romance should be avoided in the near future, it just requires a different approach. For example, it is more important than ever to get to know someone well before you set up a date. Be cautious and even a little hesitant about setting up a blind date with someone you don’t know very well, because you don’t know the status of their health – and even if this stranger claims to be healthy.
Call him or her first to ‘get a feel for the person’, like we used to do before we started dating apps. Skype each other, go on a virtual date: once you know better who you’re dealing with, you can decide if this date is worth the risk. Because that’s the trade-off we all have to make every day in times of corona .
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