Don’t wear earphones when you walk home alone. Don’t look at your phone when you’re outside in the dark. And if you do, stick to well-lit paths. Better yet, never walk alone at night. Women are bombarded with well-meaning advice about staying safe in public. All of these tips are specifically aimed at reducing the…
The idea that people in long-term relationships become more similar has been around for many years. In 1987, scientists at the University of Michigan began studying the phenomenon. Do married couples become more similar over time? They photographed the couples when they got married and then photographed the couples again 25 years later. The answer…
If you’ve ever wondered how some people can have one relationship after another, you’re not alone. Sure, there are certain traits that seem obvious, like physical attractiveness and a smooth talker. But that would be to ignore many other qualities that may be even more important. One of those qualities is playfulness, suggests new research from the…
As a bystander, it’s easy to judge a bad relationship. When your friend’s partner makes disparaging remarks during a disagreement, you see it clearly. That’s not how your friend should be treated . You might even advise them to run away quickly before things get out of hand. But you don’t give yourself that advice when the…
Dating is hard for everyone. But it’s even harder when you’re constantly choosing the wrong partners. While you say you want a stable partner to start a middle-class life, you only date creative types who shudder at the thought of having children. Or you want to meet an adventurer who will help you push boundaries,…
In a world where most connections are digital, we sometimes forget what it’s like to connect with someone in person. Just as we all have a need for food, humans also have a fundamental and innate need for deeper connections.
If you can train yourself to connect with someone, it will be a great addition…
The first experience most men have with online dating? That it is not as easy as they thought. Many men write a profile text , add some photos and wait for the messages to come in. Guess what ? That is not how it works.
A day later and countless inbox refreshes later, the conclusion is that it’s not…
Sometimes we meet someone and it feels like we’ve known them for years. Do you know that feeling? Maybe you got it from a stranger at a festival, a colleague from another department, or someone sitting next to you on a plane. Or if you were lucky, it happened on a date. You can’t explain…
What does your timeline look like when you open your favorite dating app ? Are the faces always the same and do you get a sense of déjà vu when you start swiping? And when you look at your inbox, are they all matches that didn’t lead to anything? It’s no surprise if this is typical of…
Want to find your way to someone’s heart? Start in the kitchen, not the bedroom, new research suggests . Three-quarters of people surveyed in a recent survey are more likely to go on a date with someone who knows they can cook.
The study asked 2,000 participants about the role of cooking in relationships and dating. The…