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Today I want to talk about a delicate but very important topic. Over the years, we accumulate not only wisdom and experience, but sometimes habits that, alas, can imperceptibly “mature” our image and prevent us from keeping up with the times. Let’s take an honest look at 7 such habits and think about whether it’s time to make room for lightness, energy and an updated style?
Mature age is not a reason to give up the desire to look good and relevant. On the contrary, it is a great time to hone your style and get rid of everything unnecessary, including habits that hold us back.
1. The habit of being “stuck” in the style of your youth
The first thing that can give away the unwillingness to change is clothes and hairstyles that were at the peak of fashion 10, 20, or even 40 years ago. Favorite styles that once fit perfectly, or a haircut “like then” – this is great as a memory, but not always appropriate today.
Why it’s a hindrance: The “past” style often creates the impression that you’re stuck in time and don’t accept your true self. It can look old-fashioned and clash with your mature beauty.
What to do: But this does not mean that you need to run blindly chasing trends. It is enough to study modern basic silhouettes. For example, what coats are worn now instead of outdated models, the current cut of a jacket, well-fitting skirts and dresses – and gradually introduce them into your wardrobe. Try them on, see what suits you right now.
2. The habit of ignoring changes in your figure
As we age, our figure changes – this is absolutely normal. And often, instead of choosing clothes that will correctly correct and decorate, we go to extremes: we start hiding behind shapeless robes or, on the contrary, out of habit, we try to squeeze into something that is clearly too small.
Why it’s a hindrance: Baggy clothes don’t hide, but rather often increase volume, making the silhouette bulky. Too tight clothes cut in unsightly and emphasize what you’d like to hide.
What to do: Look for a cut that will suit your figure now, not then. Pay attention to semi-fitted silhouettes, wrap-around items, and freedom between the body and the item. Give preference to clothes that hold their shape in the right places. Emphasize the advantages (wrists, ankles, waist – if possible and appropriate). Try on and be honest with yourself.
3. The habit of “saving” on basic care
Well-groomed skin, healthy hair and a neat manicure mean much more than a thick layer of makeup. Neglecting basic care can ruin all your efforts to create a stylish image.
Why it’s a problem: Unkempt appearance creates the impression of fatigue and adds age, even if you’re dressed to the nines.
What to do: Focus on quality basic care: cleansing, moisturizing, SPF for the face. Timely haircuts and hair care, neat manicure – the basis of elegance.
4. The habit of doing makeup from my youth
What was flattering at 20 is not always suitable at 60. Too dense a tone, pearlescent or colored shadows on the entire eyelid, clearly defined dark lips and missing eyebrows are classic mistakes that can visually age you.
Why it interferes: Incorrect textures and shades emphasize age-related changes and make the face look like a “mask”.
What to do: Light, moisturizing textures of the tone, concealer in dots, satin or matte shadows of neutral shades, refreshing blush. The goal is not to redraw the face, but to refresh it.
5. The habit of wearing outdated accessories
Accessories are the cherry on the cake of your look, and they can either enhance or ruin the impression. A bag of an indistinct shape “from the 2000s”, old-fashioned beads or an outdated frame of glasses with chameleon lenses – all this immediately reveals an unwillingness to keep up with the times.
Why it’s a hindrance: Glasses are part of your face, and outdated frames can make you look too “grown up” and outdated. A bag is an important style marker. Old-fashioned accessories can ruin the relevance of even the most successful clothes.
What to do: Pick out a few key modern accessories, perhaps you’ll need advice from your daughter or a friend with good taste. Update your glasses frame – try on current shapes that suit your face type. Choose a bag with a modern, laconic design. Review your jewelry – perhaps you should give preference to more minimalist or geometric shapes instead of overly ornate “granny” options.
6. The habit of slouching and forgetting about posture
No matter how stylishly you dress, slumped shoulders, a hunched back and a sideways glance will ruin all your efforts. Bad posture is not only a health issue, but also an important element of visual perception.
Why it’s a hindrance: Slouching instantly makes your figure look heavy and tired, visually shortens your neck and adds years. Clothes sit worse on a hunched back. In addition, it conveys insecurity.
What to do: Pay attention to your back throughout the day. Try to keep your shoulders straight and your crown up. Simple exercises for your back and neck (even 5 minutes a day) can give great results. Remember: royal posture is a rejuvenating and most effective accessory!
7. The habit of complaining and focusing on the negative
Our internal state is inextricably linked with how we look. Constant dissatisfaction, complaints about life, age, health – all this leaves an imprint on the face and in the eyes.
Why it’s a hindrance: Always frowning eyebrows, drooping corners of the lips – this is subconsciously associated with old age and despondency. Such an attitude kills any style.
What to do: Learn to notice the good. Practice gratitude, find small joys. Communicate with positive people, do things that bring pleasure. Periodically do self-massage of the cramped muscles of the face, neck and head, it relaxes. And smile more often – a sincere smile refreshes and rejuvenates!
Getting rid of old habits is not an attempt to cheat time, but a step towards a more harmonious, stylish and joyful life here and now. Listen to yourself, do not be afraid to change, and style is a great way to emphasize it, getting rid of these 7 brakes!
Which of these habits have you noticed in yourself or others? What have you managed to get rid of?