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Ella has had a crush on Mark for a while now, but she never dares to tell him. She is so shy that she is afraid to get too close to him. So every day when he is around, Ella does her best to avoid him as much as possible.
One day, when she meets Mark again at school, Ella decides to seize her chance. She cautiously walks up to him and makes a witty remark. They start chatting about small talk. After a few minutes, she starts to feel more at ease. Mark also seems very interested in what she says and he often smiles at her.
As Mark closes his locker, he suddenly turns around and looks Ella straight in the eye. Her heart starts beating faster as he looks at her dreamily. “I hope to see you soon,” he mumbles before leaving for his next class.
Ella doesn’t know what to think of those words. She wants so much to believe that he sees something in her , but she doesn’t dare to believe that it’s true. Still, she’s left with a warm feeling when he walks away, knowing that something is going on between the two of them. When they then get in touch on app and text each other frequently, Ella asks herself the question: does he want something with me?
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15 Signs He Wants to Be With You
When you have a crush on someone, it can be hard to know if the person you’re with is interested. While there’s no magic way to tell if someone wants to be with you other than asking them outright, there are some telltale signs that can help you determine if they want to be with you.
While every relationship is different, there are a few telltale signs that could indicate he is interested in you. These fifteen signs could be evidence that he really wants to start something with you.
1. He sends a lot of messages
If he often contacts you via text, phone calls or emails, it is a sign that he wants more than just friendship. It is also a sign if he asks a lot of questions , for example about what you are doing and how your day was. This shows that he is interested in your life and not just your life, but also in you personally.
2. He makes an effort to be around you
Coincidentally, he is also there when you are going to do something. Coincidentally? Not quite. This is a strong indication that he wants to be seen by you.
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3. He smiles at you
If he gets a big smile on his face when you are together, then it is clear that he likes you . You will notice that he laughs and smiles more at you than at other people around.
4. He gets jealous when other men come near him
Men, just like women, get a little jealous when they’re in love. If you notice that he gets uncomfortable when another man gets close, it probably means that he has feelings for you . Jealousy can be a strong signal that he wants something with you.
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5. He tries to see you more often
If he regularly suggests doing something fun together or looking for other ways to spend more time with you, it probably means he is interested in you. He feels an urge to spend more time with you.
6. He also needs physical attention
Does he often want to stand next to you or walk next to you? Or maybe he seeks contact by means of an arm around your shoulders or a hug when you meet? Then this can be a signal that he wants to become intimate with you.
7. He compliments you often and sincerely
Compliments about your appearance can sometimes be deceptive, but if they come from a place of genuine interest and respect for who you are and what you do, then this can be something really meaningful. If these sweet compliments come up regularly in your conversations, then this says something about his feelings for you.
8. He gives gifts
Regularly a small gift, sometimes a present and other times a sweet gesture : these are subtle ways to arouse your interest. This can also be done by simple forms of giving attention such as carrying your shopping bag or performing other small tasks. These are all signs that he wants something with you.
9. He is interested in what you do and think
If a person shows a lot of interest in what’s going on in your head, like what books you read or what movies you like to watch, then this is a clear sign that he is interested in you. And in most cases, it’s a romantic interest.
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10. He thinks about you a lot
If he casually indicates that he thinks a lot about you, then it is obvious. Men only do that when they have feelings of love for a woman. There is probably more going on between you than just friendship .
11. He is open about his feelings for you
If someone is open about how they feel around you, that’s a big indicator that they have feelings for you. This can range from small things like sending you heart emojis, to bigger things like openly admitting that they have a crush on someone – without saying who it is.
12. He makes plans with you for the future
Does he include you in his future plans? Then keep in mind that he wants to start something with you. It means that he is willing to invest in the relationship.
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13. You feel that he is really interested
He doesn’t just ask about your day, he goes further. What exactly did you do, how did it make you feel, and what made this day different from other days? He gets more into you personally than anyone else does. It means he’s interested in who you are and what’s going on in your life. This usually means he wants something with you.
14. You notice his enthusiasm
When he is with you, you can feel his energy. Sometimes you can feel the energy that someone radiates when he is with you. This can mean a strong attraction and usually indicates romantic interest on his part. If he looks at you intensely, even when you are not making eye contact, this can also mean that he wants to start something with you.
15. He always wants to be alone with you
He’s probably looking for an opportunity – a chance to say he likes you. Or better yet, a chance to kiss you . If he wants to spend time alone with you instead of with others, it often means he wants to make it clear that he wants something with you.
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