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Bad men, players and bad boys ; we have all kinds of names to describe a certain type of man. For women, on the other hand, these terms are not used. But still, there are also women who are not suitable as girlfriends. For convenience, we call these ‘bad women’.
For example, you recently started dating a woman you met through Badoo . It started with a lame opening line and now you’ve already had a few dates. The funny thing is that you really like her, but you’re still not entirely sure if she’s the right woman for you.
Is she a bad woman?
The little things she does make you think you are dealing with a bad woman; a woman better avoided. We’re not talking about all those unnecessary things in the bathroom, but signals that this could end badly. How do you know what a bad woman is and how you can recognize her?
1. She has constant problems
Or the blue envelopes from the Tax Authorities arrive on the doorstep every other day or contact with friends is broken every now and then, it is a bad quality if she keeps getting into trouble. Some people always seem to bring it upon themselves, but that is often their own fault. It is a clear signal that you are dealing with a wrong woman.
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2. She only talks about herself
Don’t think that only men can be a narcissist, narcissism also occurs in women. You can quickly notice in the conversations you have whether she has narcissistic traits, which are usually negative for the relationship. A narcissist does not talk to you, but at you. They even prefer to talk about themselves. Do you notice that she doesn’t ask you any questions but shares a lot about herself? The early stages of dating are about getting to know each other. If she doesn’t show genuine interest in you, then this is a strong signal.
3. She wants to control you
A characteristic of a bad woman is that she makes everything difficult, when it could be so easy. She tries to gain control over you with all kinds of tactics and techniques. For example, she makes you feel guilty when you want to see your friends, so you meet up with them less and less to avoid that feeling. She checks your messages and constantly corrects you if she thinks you’re doing something wrong.
4. She shows signs of jealousy
Jealousy is not called the green monster for nothing. In many relationships, jealousy is a major relationship problem, which more often than not (eventually) leads to a breakup. If she shows jealous behavior quite early in the relationship, you may wonder whether you want that. In practice, jealous behavior is caused by a number of negative factors such as possessiveness, insecurity, emotional instability and low self-esteem.
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5. She belittles you
When we talk about a healthy relationship , some aspects always come back: encouraging, supporting and helping each other where possible. A woman in this relationship helps you make your dreams come true, believes in your ambitions and invests in your future.
A bad woman doesn’t do that. She doesn’t want you to pursue your passions, doesn’t believe in your skills, and makes you feel like you’re worthless. They are the signs of an unhealthy relationship . She belittles you indoors, but also when others are present.
6. She often talks about other men
Let’s be honest, she can talk about other men, but it’s not really polite. You don’t want her talking about other men when she’s with you. Whether you’ve had two dates or ten; she shouldn’t be thinking about other men. It could mean she isn’t over an ex yet or she wants to make you jealous; two reasons that tell you she’s not a good fit for a relationship.
7. She is too dependent
“You are everything to me.” Have you ever said this to a loved one? It seems like a sweet compliment , but it’s actually a bad sign. It makes you dependent on your partner, as if your partner is responsible for your own happiness. That’s not how it works. Does she need constant confirmation so she doesn’t panic? Or does she have no opinion of her own and is afraid to contradict you? If you notice that she doesn’t want to do anything alone and demands all your time, this is a bad sign.
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8. She has mood swings
It’s hard to be in a relationship with someone who is emotionally unstable. Unless something tragic has happened, she can’t be happy one moment and then burst into tears the next for no real reason. Of course there may be good reasons for this, but if that is not the case, and it happens regularly, then you may wonder what the underlying problem is.
9. She talks about others behind their backs
When you see her laughing with the neighbor, it seems like everything is fine. Once you get home, you find out what she really thinks about the neighbor. In other words, she is not honest with others and acts hypocritically. This behavior can lead to problems later on and, in many cases, it can mean that she is insecure about herself.
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10. She manipulates people
Do you feel like you are doing things you don’t really want to do? Or that you are forced by her, without ordering her to do so? It could be that you don’t notice her manipulative behavior. Sometimes it is difficult to recognize this behavior when you are part of the story yourself. Therefore, pay attention to whether she manipulates other people to get what she wants. This will give you an important hint as to whether she is a bad woman or not.
Being in love, or having a crush on someone , is a nice feeling but it also makes you see things through rose-colored glasses. What you feel for her affects your judgment, causing you to see a make-believe world instead of reality. You miss the hidden agenda while it is laid out in front of you. Are you wondering if you have hooked the wrong woman? Now you know what to look out for.
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