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You’ve been dating someone for a while and you’re slowly falling in love. He’s so handsome, smart and charming. Yet after a while he stops texting you back . You hear rumors that he was flirting with other women at the same time. And even when he does end up with you, he turns out not to be the nice guy you thought he was. You’ve hooked the wrong guy again…
It happens to you every time. Over and over again. And every time you end up with a broken heart . No matter what you try, you always fall for the wrong guys. So what’s the reason for this? We’ll tell you about the 8 reasons why you keep falling for the wrong guys.
The wrong boys… are attractive
It’s a fact: many women fall for bad boys . These bad boys are very good at flirting. They know like no other how to arouse attraction in women. It seems like they don’t have to make any effort. These men are impulsive, self-confident and bold, and are therefore also ideal for a one-night stand.
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8 reasons why that is so
If a man comes across as a bit naughty, you quickly associate this with fun and excitement. Due to the exciting character, you can easily be wrapped up for an exciting night. However, these bad boys are not suitable for a long-term relationship. And that is why we give you 8 possible reasons why you fall for these types.
1. You ignore the red flags
Every bad guy can be recognized by the red flags; the warning signs that he will not be good for you. Unfortunately, many women are willing to overlook the red flags. He is so nice, handsome and charming. However, it is very important that you recognize these red flags and ask yourself if you want to continue with such a person. Red flags say everything about a man and that way you can easily recognize if it is a bad man.
2. You don’t have good male role models in your life
As you get older, you tend to date people who look like your parents. This means that as a straight woman, you often go for men who look like your father. The problem is that if your father wasn’t around when you were younger, or if there wasn’t a positive male figure in your life, you’re going to have a hard time finding the right guy. Because of your past and how you were raised, you might find yourself attracted to the wrong guys because you’re subconsciously going for a guy who looks like your father.
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3. You think you can change him
You can’t change people, especially men. Are you falling in love with someone who you know is totally wrong for you? You probably think that you can change him and that he will suddenly be perfect for you? Forget it. You can’t change him and the only thing you will be, is extremely disappointed.
4. You’re addicted to the drama
Some women love the drama that comes with dating the wrong guys. The excitement, uncertainty, and anxiety can be addictive. At some point, you have to realize that it’s the drama that matters to you, not the men themselves. Admit that you’re addicted to the excitement and stop complaining about how you’re constantly getting with the wrong guys.
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5. You don’t know your worth
If you don’t think you are worthy of being loved and respected , men won’t treat you that way. Know who you are, what you want, and what you are worth; never settle for less. Men should count themselves lucky to have a woman like you, so never forget that.
6. You want to save everyone
You can’t save every man. You may always feel the urge to fix or save someone , but you are not the one who has to do it. Someone may have a lot of trauma and have started to behave badly because of it, but that doesn’t mean you have to save him.
7. You don’t know what you want
If you are not sure what you want, both in life and in relationships, then you certainly cannot accurately choose a partner who is right for you . You need to have an idea of what your future is going to look like and who should play a role in it. What do you want that person to be? If you do not know what you want, then you will not find that person quickly. And because of this, you will continue to settle for the wrong men.
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8.You are afraid of being alone
One of the biggest reasons you always fall for the wrong guy: you’re afraid of being alone. If you’re afraid of ending up alone and growing old alone, you’ll be more likely to settle for less. Remember your worth and what kind of partner you’re looking for. The perfect guy will come into your life at some point, if you let go of the wrong guys.
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