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Every woman wants her man to only have eyes for her. In turn, you have also found a man who you really care about and think he cares about you in exactly the same way . Yet something has been nagging at you lately, because he has changed his behavior towards you significantly in the last few weeks or months. And yet nothing has changed on your part.
If you have a sneaking suspicion that he has someone else on his mind while he’s staring you in the eye, then it’s time to take action and investigate further. This can be done by asking him directly, but for this the suspicions must be in place.
7 Signs He’s Thinking About Another Woman
We therefore tell you about the disturbing signs that he is indeed thinking about another woman (even if he is with you). Although we obviously hope that the scenarios below do not sound familiar to you.
1. He has become distant
There was once a time when he told you absolutely everything. From how his day went at work or school to the smallest, sometimes even banal thoughts. You were the first person he shared everything with and you felt very comfortable knowing that. Now it’s hard enough to get even a simple “Hi” out of him. He has become distant .
Instead, he is distracted and seems to have other priorities . Even if you try to get closer to him, it doesn’t seem to do much. If your guy suddenly makes much less effort than before when it comes to communicating in a relationship, then that is a disturbing sign.
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2. There is less physical affection
Physical affection is an important part of any relationship. By this we do not only mean the sexual thing, but also think of curling up on the couch together to watch a movie, for example. Or rubbing your leg while eating and kissing you goodbye before going to work. Sex is indeed a good indicator.
If you suddenly notice that physical affection is now suddenly lacking, it could be a very strong sign that he is finding that affection elsewhere. He physically steps away from you to slowly but surely break that connection, while his thoughts are on someone else.
3. He brings up things you haven’t done together
This is definitely one of the most awkward situations, but quite common actually. Suddenly he talks about a place you visited together, only to realize he’s mistaken. And that place or situation he is talking about does not seem familiar to you. Oops .
You will soon notice the mistake by his reaction and facial expressions, or the fact that he changes the subject as quickly as possible. To really confront him about it, it’s best to let him return to the subject he wants to avoid.
4. He’s always on his phone
Is there anything worse than being with someone who won’t stay off the phone? In the most distressing cases, he doesn’t even look up while he’s talking to you. Now, constantly being on the phone is not exactly the same as having an affair with someone else , because nowadays we are on our smartphone at every turn; yet.
If this behavior is relatively new and there is no other valid explanation for his sudden mobile obsession, then that could be it. Try to sneak a peek at his screen if you can. Please note: you should not want to go so far as to actually take a look at his phone if he leaves his phone unattended.
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5. He’s suddenly too busy to see you
When you first started dating, he had all the time in the world to meet up for dinner and spend quality time with you. Now his schedule is suddenly extremely busy and he seems to have no room for you anymore. At least, not during the week like before.
Of course it comes up what he was doing when he was too busy to see you. But if no valid explanations can be given, then it is clear that his priorities lie elsewhere these days. He may have time, but he simply lacks attention for you.
6. He stops focusing on the little things
Especially in the beginning, he wanted to shower you with love and affection . From a bunch of flowers or a box of chocolates, to remembering small details; there was no lack of spontaneity. It was the little things that made the difference and that has changed now. He is no longer focused on making you happy and making a good impression, paying attention to the little things that make a difference.
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7. He doesn’t like to talk about the future
If the relationship between two people is close, there is often talk about a joint future. This does not necessarily have to be about marriage and children, but it can be about a joint holiday, a concert visit or a weekend away. If he prefers not to talk about future plans in the medium or long term, then it is likely that he does not consider you part of his future. This is especially the case if this has changed along the way.
He tries to keep his options open, because in his eyes someone may come who is “better” than you or he has already found someone else. The previous conversations about future plans are now suddenly being had with someone else. He does have plans for the future with someone, although it doesn’t seem to involve you.
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