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Relationships are something special. Two people who share day and night for many years in a row. It’s like an adventure where you grow and learn together. About yourself, about life and about each other. Sometimes it seems like time flies by when you’re with your sweetheart, and sometimes every second seems like an eternity. But that’s exactly what makes the adventure so special – the mix of highs and lows and the challenges and obstacles.
It’s not always roses and moonshine, you probably know that all too well. There will be disagreements, misunderstandings and moments when you wonder why you started this adventure in the first place. But it is precisely at those moments that the strength of your relationship comes to the fore.
It is the way you solve problems together, support each other in difficult times and laugh together at the little things that life offers. It is the feeling of trust that you find in each other. It’s the way you make each other feel special. And that’s what we’re going to talk about now: how to make her feel special.
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How to make her feel special
A relationship is like a delicate flower that needs care and attention. It means that you have to continuously work on making the bond between you and your girlfriend (or wife) blossom. After all, you don’t want your relationship to get into a rut and grow apart over time, right?
How do you approach that? Well, it’s actually not as complicated as it seems. We’ve put together a list of 48 small gestures that will make her feel truly special to you. Trust us, it will do wonders for your relationship. Let’s see what you can (and can’t) do.
1. Give her enough attention
It’s like putting her in a spotlight, where she is the shining center of your world.
2. Listen when she shares her feelings with you
Consider what she’s actually saying. Think about it. This not only shows understanding, but also shows her that her words matter to you.
3. Never embarrass her in front of others
Protect her self-esteem like a knight in shining armor, even when it comes to jokes. No derogatory comments that are funny to others but not to her.
4. Do something before she can ask for it
It’s like reading her mind and fulfilling her wishes before she speaks them.
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5. Make eye contact when talking to each other
In those eyes lies a deep connection that words sometimes cannot express. Eye contact makes it clear that you are present.
6. Never belittle her
Her self-confidence is a precious jewel.
7. Tell her regularly that you need her
Let her know that you appreciate her , that she is an indispensable piece of your puzzle.
8. Do things that make you laugh together
Laughter is the cement that makes your bond stronger.
9. Compliment her on things that make her special to you
Don’t keep it to yourself. Tell her what you find so special about her.
10. Put your arms around her when she comes home from work
It’s like a warm welcome that lets her know that you are her safe haven.
11. Hold her hand in public regularly
This small act speaks volumes about your love, without words.
12. Give her time to meet up with friends
Let her have fun with her friends. Encourage her and give her that freedom.
13. Show that you enjoy being with her
In other words, show that it is your favorite place to be, wherever you are.
14. Be aware of what irritates her
Your socks are lying all over the house? Deal with it more consciously and show that you are thinking about it.
15. Treat her even better than you treat others
She deserves VIP treatment, right, being your girlfriend?
16. Write her a personalized poem
Personal messages that come straight from the heart make her feel like she means a lot to you.
17. Make plans for the future with her
Dreaming about the future together and setting goals gives her confidence in the relationship.
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18. Don’t forget to keep dating
Keep the spark burning by making dating a priority.
19. Admit your mistakes honestly
An apology is like a bridge that brings you closer together after a mistake.
20. Stand up for her when necessary
You are her rock. And you’re ready to defend when she needs it.
21. Don’t flirt with other women
If you don’t already know, it’s disrespectful to do this (in her presence).
22. Share your feelings and thoughts
Allow her into your inner world, because that is a sign of deep connection.
23. Never take her for granted
Treat her as if every day with her is a gift.
24. Show that you’re excited about what she’s excited about
Her passion is infectious, and your support makes her shine.
25. Consult before you change anything
Your decisions affect both of you, so discussing it together is the least you can do.
26. Don’t let disagreements about money become heated
Money can be a sensitive subject – treat it with care and understanding.
27. Give her space to learn things
Because learning never actually stops, even when you are in a relationship.
28. Do the chores around the house
It’s the secret ingredient to a happy home: doing your job without complaining.
29. Let us know in time that you will be late
Respect her time as you would the other way around.
30. Support her in achieving goals
Your support can bring her closer to her dreams.
31. Surprise her with romantic gifts
Never stop with unexpected gifts that make her day special.
32. Don’t make a big deal out of small disagreements
Don’t make a big deal out of everything, some things just aren’t worth it.
33. Send her a spontaneous love letter
If you want to make her feel special, a love letter is never a bad idea.
34. Take over all her tasks when she’s not feeling well
Because you are there for her when she needs it.
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35. Take an afternoon off to spend together
Especially for her, with the aim of doing something together with her.
36. Ask how her day was
Simple, right? It makes her feel like you care.
37. Brag about her to others
Show everyone how proud you are of the person she is.
38. Massage her back after a busy day
Your hands are like magic wands that make stress disappear and bring relaxation.
39. Make a photo book of your most beautiful moments together
It shows that you cherish the memories of the two of you.
40. Hug her spontaneously
A hug is an unspoken ‘ I love you ‘.
41. Give her a special piece of jewelry with a meaning
The jewelry tells a story, your story, and she will wear it with pride.
42. Host a romantic candlelight dinner at home
You don’t have to spend a lot of money to make her feel that special.
43. Give her a loving nickname
A name only she understands.
44. Bring her breakfast in bed on a regular weekday
A surprise to start her day with a smile.
45. Send her an unexpected compliment via text message
Words that brighten her day.
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46. Share your deepest secrets and dreams with her
Make her feel like she is the only one you share this with.
47. Learn her favorite song on guitar and sing it to her
Your serenade, even if you can’t sing at all, will be music to her ears.
48. Let her (accidentally) know you’re looking at this list
Show her that you want to give her that special feeling.
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