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On Mother’s Day you of course get that beautiful bouquet of flowers, on her birthday you surprise her with a beautiful piece of jewelry and on Valentine’s Day she melts away from that box of chocolates you have for her. These are without a doubt sweet gestures that no woman will say no to. For some women, receiving gifts at all might come as a complete surprise. But do you understand that it’s not just about those gifts?
They are certainly welcome, but they are like cherries on the cake. They show that you are thoughtful, but to really show that you love her, you have to go beyond that. It’s those small, everyday things that make the difference. So, how do you show your girlfriend that you love her? These are 36 ways to show her you love her.
1. Skip a night of gaming with friends for a night together
It shows that you prioritize your relationship over other things. She will feel special and appreciated .
2. Do the laundry
Even before she gets home from work, so it’s ready when she gets home. By taking some of the housework off her hands, you give her the chance to relax. She will thank you for your care.
3. Surprise her with a ladies night
Plan a night out for her with her friends. That shows that you understand and support her needs. She will love that you appreciate her social life.
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4. Do the housework
And surprise her with a clean and tidy house. A clean house creates a calm environment, and she will realize that you care without her having to ask.
5. Encourage her to do fun things with friends
Show that you value her independence and encourage her to have fun with her friends.
6. Tell her why you fell for her
It will show her that you still cherish those special qualities.
7. Hold her hand in public
It’s a small act of affection that shows you care, even in the mundane moments.
8. Open the car door for her
Old school ? Maybe a little. But small gestures like these show courtesy and respect, and it shows that you treat her like a lady.
9. Print a photo of the two of you together
And frame it for her. It reminds her of the beautiful moments you shared together and that you cherish those moments.
10. Take out the trash before she asks you to
It shows initiative. And it prevents her from having to ask you.
11. Give her a head massage after a busy day
Let her stress melt away and show your caring by treating her to relaxation.
12. Take the afternoon off
And cook a delicious meal for two. It is a romantic gesture that shows that you are making an effort to spoil her and create quality time .
13. Thank her regularly for the simple things
Show her that you notice her efforts. Tell her you appreciate even the little things she does. Say you notice.
14. Buy flowers on a random weekday
It brings unexpected joy into her life.
15. Do the dishes yourself
It eases her household chores and shows that you are willing to help without waiting for a request.
16. Keep your promises
Being trustworthy builds trust and shows respect.
17. Write a love letter
A personal letter, written from the heart, will touch her deeply. And if you know how to express yourself well, it will express your feelings in a unique way.
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18. Fill the bath, light some candles and get in together
Relaxing with just the two of you. A romantic bath creates an intimate and relaxing atmosphere in which you can enjoy each other’s company.
19. Give her a kiss when you leave for work and a bigger kiss when you get home
It reminds her that you are always thinking about her , even when you are not with her.
20. Buy the book she wants to read
Before she even gets the chance. This shows that you pay attention to her interests and that you are willing to surprise her.
21. Compliment her on random things
It strengthens her self-confidence if you do this regularly. This shows that you have an eye for her positive qualities.
22. Surprise her with the same outing as the first date
It will evoke nostalgic feelings and bring back memories of the special moments in your relationship.
23. Leave short, sweet messages on a post-it note around the house
It’s the little surprises that brighten her day. The next time she finds a sweet message , she will immediately think of you, even when you’re not there.
24. Help her with the housework
Working together on household chores shows your commitment to a shared life.
25. Ask her how her day was
Simple, right? This shows you are interested in her life and that you are there to listen.
26. Come up with a fun date idea and surprise her
Show initiative and creativity by showing her that you want to make every date special .
27. Ask her opinion about something that’s bothering you
Asking for advice is not weak. This shows respect for her insight and that you value her opinion.
28. Make her something
A handmade gift shows that you put effort into something special for her.
29. Admit your mistakes
It shows maturity and shows that you are willing to take responsibility for your actions.
30. Tell her what you appreciate about what she does
Let her know that you notice and admire her efforts, and that you appreciate her.
31. Break a lot of things in the house
Again, without her asking. It shows that you are willing to take action to make her life easier.
32. Send her a message that you love her
It will brighten her day and show that you have her in your thoughts.
33. Wash her car while she is at work (or exercising)
It saves her time and effort, and shows your care for her.
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34. Let her wake up with breakfast in bed
It starts her day with a smile and shows your concern for her well-being.
35. Agree with her
It shows understanding and respect for her views, even if you don’t always agree.
36. Tell her you love her!
At least, if you haven’t done it yet today. A simple yet powerful expression of your feelings can brighten her day and remind her how much she means to you.
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