20 Things Women Always Love to Hear

Most men don’t know what to say to a woman. For them, it is not natural to sense what the woman in question wants to hear. Although there are men who manage to touch a woman’s heart every time – and not by accident – ‘romantic speech’ is not second nature to most men.

Many men can’t send a sensitive text message without thinking about it. They sit down and think long and hard about what they’re going to text. Is this message too long? Do I sound too desperate? And is it weird if I say this? What they really want to know: will the woman appreciate it?

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20 Things Women Always Love to Hear

Knowing what women want isn’t easy. Unless you’re Mel Gibson and star in the movie ” What Women Want ,” you don’t have the gift of hearing women’s thoughts. And that’s a good thing, because it might be more of a punishment than a blessing. But even without telepathic powers, you can still know what women want to hear. Here are seventeen things every woman wants to hear.

1. “You can do this.”

In other words: that you support her and give her confidence. Whether she has a deadline for her studies or a simple task that she is dreading: make her feel that you support her.

2. “We’re in this together.”

Does she have a difficult task to complete? With this sentence you say that you will stay by her side: no matter what . She doesn’t have to do it alone, you are there to support her.

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3. “No, you’re not fat.”

Before you roll your eyes, women need reassurance when they’re insecure. And you’re the one who can provide that peace of mind so she can feel better about herself. Women want to hear that you find them beautiful , even on their worst days.

4. “I am proud of you.”

Did she do something that she found difficult? Let her know that you are proud of her. She will appreciate it.

5. “How I feel is…”

If you follow this sentence with a verbalization of your emotions and feelings, then you are already talking more about your feelings than many proud men do. Women like to hear how you feel, not just what you think. They feel close to you when you show and share your vulnerable side with her.

6. “I understand how you see this.”

Sometimes, just acknowledging her perspective is enough to clear the air. You don’t have to agree with it. But if you show that you understand her, you’re acknowledging her point of view, and every woman appreciates that.

7. “I wouldn’t change anything about you.”

She is perfect for you just the way she is? Flaws included? That is what she would love to hear from you. It gives her security.

8. “Sorry.”

We don’t mean the “sorry” to end the disagreement , but the “sorry” that comes straight from your heart. Apologizing shows that you care enough about her and the relationship. Admitting you were wrong may be emotionally uncomfortable, but that gives the “sorry” more power.

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9. “You are so sexy.”

Besides the fact that a woman likes to get confirmation that she is beautiful, she also likes to hear from you that you find her sexy. She wants to feel desired by her man. Women want to know and feel that their partner is attracted to them.

10. “I love you.”

Everyone likes to feel loved and the ‘I love you’ phrase is the best declaration of love. Especially if you only say it when you mean it and feel it, this is a phrase that every woman likes to hear.

11. “What do you think about this?”

Asking a woman for advice is the height of trust in her qualities. It shows that you value her opinion, trust her judgment and appreciate her insights.

12. “Saturday night sushi and a movie?”

Now she doesn’t have to be a sushi lover and the cinema can also be exchanged for a drink. What this sentence is about is that you show initiative. Women like to see a man take initiative and make suggestions to do something together.

13. “You know what I like about you?”

This question immediately grabs her attention. She wants to know the answer right away. The answer doesn’t really matter that much, but this sentence works best if you mention something very detailed.

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14. “You look amazing.”

Who doesn’t like to be complimented on their appearance? Women also like to hear that they look good. It boosts her self-confidence and makes her feel more loved: simple.

15. “What did you do today?”

Women like to talk about their day. It gives them a chance to vent and a chance to relieve work stress. Instead of being the victim of her frustrations, help her vent them.

16. “Let me help you.”

When she’s busy with daily household chores, like making dinner or cleaning the bathroom, it can all feel overwhelming. You score extra points if you volunteer to help. This offer won’t work as well if she asks for it. Say it yourself to show that you’re willing to give up your time for her.

17. “Thank you for all you do.”

Even if your wife isn’t a stay-at-home mom and does all the housework, she appreciates it when you see all the things she does for you. Let her know you appreciate her doing something around the house. It’s simple, but sometimes we forget to thank the people who do the most for us. Words of thanks make a big difference.

18. “I can’t wait to see you again.”

No matter how long you have been in a relationship, it is important to show that you still love being with her. With all the daily obligations, we sometimes forget that you should never take love for granted . Let her know regularly that you still love her and spend time together.

The desire to see someone again keeps the relationship fresh and alive, but also exciting. Send her a message during the week that you can’t wait to be with her again so she is reminded that you love her.

19. “What we have is the most important thing to me.”

If you really feel like you’re going to share your life with her until the end, then she’s the most important person in your life. Of course, your family members are important too, but someone you share everything with might be just as important. Let her know that too.

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20. “You are the only one for me.”

If she’s still not convinced after all of the above, this is the line that will take away her relationship insecurities. This is what a woman wants to hear every day: that she’s the only one for you.

During the first few weeks of dating, you do everything you can to present yourself in the best possible way. Whatever you do, you try to do it as well as possible. You compliment her several times a day and show her that you appreciate her presence. However, this often only happens in the beginning. Then you quickly get back to normal and her presence becomes a habit.

You put less effort into her and take her unconditional love for granted. You assume that she will always be there and that you don’t have to try anymore. If you keep this up for a long time, it can make her feel undervalued. With just a few sentences, you can let her know that she is appreciated. And that is something every woman wants to hear.

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