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Self-love is the best remedy. It is the best way to heal again. Self-love helps you move forward and ultimately look back and realize that you are better off without certain experiences or people in your life.
Self-love makes you stronger. It ensures that the door is open when people want to leave, the people who think you’ll run after them when they leave. Self-love gives you the self-confidence you need to know that you can make it on your own, that you don’t need anyone to complete you and that you know best how much you are worth.
Self-love makes you assertive. You know what you want and you’re not afraid to say it out loud. You no longer settle for less and you no longer tolerate when someone plays games or makes you false promises, no matter how much you care about the other person. Self-love protects you from the people who make you feel unimportant. Self-love protects you from the people who are unable to love you truly.
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Self-love ensures that you learn quickly. You don’t linger too long in toxic situations. You end things that don’t work or that don’t do you any good. You run away from the people who don’t appreciate you or respect you enough. You don’t keep hurting yourself by making the same mistakes over and over again. Self-love means building a barrier between you and the people who hurt you. It ensures that you put your mental and emotional well-being first.
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The best thing about self-love is that it makes the people around you powerless, they no longer have control over your emotions or thoughts. Self-love does not mean that you feel better than the people around you, nor does it mean that you are stoic or cold. No, it means that you believe in yourself, that you know what you want, that you know what kind of love and respect you deserve and that you will accept nothing less than that.
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Self-love means that you have worked on yourself for a long time and that you have fought to be where you are now. Self-love is the result of years of working on yourself. From years of doubt, loneliness and uncertainty. This means you no longer allow other people to undo your hard work. You no longer let others make you feel insecure.
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